A lot of guys get the digits of that beautiful model looking girl, and when they call, they can’t close the deal and get that date. They are so close and yet so far away!! Girls give out their phone numbers a lot, and it won’t matter unless you know what to do with the number.
Assuming you leave on the 21st century and are using your cell phone instead of a napkin, let’s solve this problem once and for all.
After getting her number, write down her name. How do you expect to take her out on a date if you can’t even remember her name? Instead of her last name, write down a nickname to remember her by, where you met her, something she talked about enjoying doing, and/or even better something you plan on doing together.
TO HAVE A SOLID NUMBER, You have to seed what you’re going to do next during your initial conversation. YOU SHOULD BE PLANNING ON DOING SOMETHING YOU BOTH ENJOY.
Now, you don’t have to fuddle when you call her and talk to her or leave a voice mail. You can just follow up with plans you already talked about. She’ll know who you are and the momentum of the last conversation can come back.
Step 1: Call. If you get her voice mail. Keep it short and sweet. DO NOT RAMBLE ON!!! Use the KISS rule: Keep It Simple Stupid. “Hi, This is Brother James. Call me back.”
When you do talk to her, KEEP THE MOMENTUM AND ENERGY GOING. Start the conversation asking her about her day and then about how great your day went. If you didn’t have a great day, DO NOT COMPLAIN. Newsflash: no one wants to date a boring or bitchy person. Keep the conversation fun, relaxed, and POSITIVE.
Step 2. Close the deal within 10 -15 minutes. Be sure to keep the vibe that you are the fun positive guy she met. Give her the time and place where you guys should meet and work around your schedule not hers. After you reach a compromise, keep talking to her for a few more minutes .
Congratulations, you just scored a hot date.