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You can’t touch it, you can’t see it, you can’t smell it, but you can definitely feel it when “it’s on”. It’s not the notes themselves, but the actually the spaces between the notes of a song that can make or break a performance at the Kennedy Center. That’s tension. That’s what’s already naturally there between men and women.
A lot of guys I know, in their attempts to be a more dominant, more alpha-male, more cocky funny, or more whatever, fail to recognize that most of the time, less IS more. You don’t have to talk as much as you think you do. You don’t have to be domineering as much as you think you do, as long as you can become a master of tension.
Deline will speak about the Secrets of Tension and why it’s a good thing. This seminar is not to be missed! It’s been rescheduled due to the snowpocolypse.
When: Wednesday, February 17, 2010 7:00 PM
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Two of the concepts that we teach that are absolutely important for attracting women is body language and voice projection/tonality. These two things are essential in our interactions, not just in general, but with everyone. If you walk around with a closed off body language (ie arms folded across your chest) and a soft spoken voice, you’re going get blown
Take a look at the Jay Z video when he closed down the MTV video awards this year. Note his swagger. He walks around like he owns the place. This is his night; he owns it already. Then, Bam! He comes out and delivers one of the best performances that MTV has seen.
The other night I was out at an event on Capitol Hill. I ended up meeting this guy who was pretty put together. He was a VP for some NGO and had worked his way up there. He had no problems communicating and had quite a few hilarious stories. However, by the end of the night, he was sloshed. His speech was completely slurred and most of his stories were not making sense.