A few months ago Washington DC was honored by the visit of DjFuji. For those who don’t know him, DjFuji is a well known dating guru from California, probably one of the best dating coaches in the nation. He recently opened his own company Tao of DJ Fuji.
I was invited to attend his seminar and I am glad I did because I learned so many things that I’m currently using to help myself and our students at Professional Pickup. I could spend days talking about the material I learned at his seminar; however, I want to focus on something I never heard anyone talking about, ‘How to pick a dating coach.’
Ladies, don’t get excited! This is not an article about how to PICK UP a dating coach. This is an article about how to PICK a dating coach and take control over your dating life.
Basically, if you pay attention to the next 6 tips, you’ll know if you need to ask for a reimbursement.
1. Your coach will care about you. He will force you to approach women and will be concerned with your progress.
2. Your coach will follow you everywhere you go during the bootcamp/ seminar/ workshop. Some coaches in this industry tend to collect money and then leave their students to other instructors, or worse, on their own. A good coach will follow you everywhere and won’t be opening his sets for himself, or trying to get laid with your sets. He is your coach and he should be paying attention to you.
3. Your coach will not go out to get drunk. If he is a good coach he will understand that you bought his time so he will make sure you get the most out of it.
4. Your coach will force you to be comfortable in uncomfortable situations and won’t be afraid of pushing you out of the box. He will not be afraid of giving you some tough love and not just waste your time by telling you only the stuff you want to hear.
5. At the end of the night your coach will go over your sticking points and your strengths.
6. Your coach will also be working on his sticking points or parts of his life he wants to improve. If he thinks he is perfect and he has nothing to work on then…. BE CAREFUL. Chances are he has a gigantic ego and offers no value.
So next time you want to take a workshop, you may want to ask your potential coach about his sticking points. If he says anything less than a genuine answer, then you know he is a marketing douche.
I recommend you guys read this article by DjFuji http://www.taoofdjfuji.com/?p=249