How to be Awesome Workshop

Yes, that’s right, we are dead serious.  It’s finally happening!  You guys asked us, and we listened. For one day… and one day only, Professional Pickup is going to teach YOU… How to be AWESOME.

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Professional Pickup 4-Week Workshop™

As mentioned in Cosmopolitan & Washington Post’s Going Out Gurus, this is the four week course that will take your dating life in Washington, DC to the next level. We will change your life and get you in the game.

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June Talk

Jun 12, 2011 0

We’re having our 1st talk of the summer.  Find out about what we know will help you become awesome and a better dater!  The meeting will be in DuPont Circle.  See the details on our Meetup site or our Eventbright Page.

How to Be Awesome: June 2011

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Back to Popular Demand! You
guys asked us, and we listened. For one day… and one day only, Professional Pickup is going to teach YOU

HOW TO BE AWESOME

Simply put: Awesome guys have awesome lives, and women love to be around them. Read more

Professional Pickup on the Today Show

May 22, 2011 0

We found out in a round about way, and Brother James’s Friday night makes much more sense… Professional Pickup’s Today Show piece finally aired on Friday.  Check out what we’re all about!

Visit msnbc.com for breaking news, world news, and news about the economy

Media! Media! Media!

Mar 05, 2011 1
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Professional Pickup has been busy doing multiple interviews ever since the Washington Post Magazine cover story.

First, we had an amazing online Questions & Answer session with the Washington Post, which cleared up a lot of who we are in regards to the article.

Later that day, James Norton fielded some live questions from MSNBC at their Studio overlooking the capital. We’re still trying to get a clip of that interview.

Later that week, James sat down with Vitor Gonçalves of RTP news (Portugal’s news station) and answered some questions about dating in Washington, DC. James comes on about the 25 minute mark.  This being being European news.   It may be a little racy for some and might be Not Safe For Work (NSFW).

And if you don’t have time to read all that, we got our story summarized by The Week.  Just one point of clarification, we do talk a lot about making emotional connections.  In fact, you can’t really do much without paying close attention to emotions.  Sigh.  Reporters, what can you do?

We have another major television interview this week and some exciting opportunities coming up.  Be sure to check in and see all of the new exciting projects.

Washington Post Article

Feb 13, 2011 0
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The Washington Post article got a lot right and we are happy with the personal emails and positive comments that we have received. There is even more to our story. We know that women are amazing and individuals. Everyone in this world is different. We embrace that with our teaching and try to bring out the best in each of our clients, men and women.  We want people to be better people in the world.

First, we focus on a completely natural way of approaching and meeting men or women.  No lines, no routines, just you.  That’s all you need.  We help give you the tools necessary to make the necessary connections to have a relationship, whatever that may be.

Second,  We have four rules that are the cornerstone of everything we teach: 1) No Lies 2) No Negativity 3) Have Courage 4)Take Full Responsibility.


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I’m shy… why?

Dec 26, 2010 0
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Being shy about expressing what you want, does no one any harm… except yourself, and does no one any good… including yourself.

And most of the time, no one is really ever paying any attention, so what’s the point of hiding?

There is none.

Become the leader of your life, and the rest will follow.

Dec 06, 2010 0
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We all know being in a position of leadership is an attractive quality to have, but do we really know what it takes to earn it?

It takes a daily march of persistence with your goals in mind, regardless of your position in life.  There are no natural born leaders, there are just people that persist in the face of adversity when all others have given up.   If you can take the pain the longest, you will end up in first place.

Did you do any of these things today…

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Podcast on The DC AM

Dec 05, 2010 0

A few weeks ago, Ernesto (Deline) and Brother James had the pleasure to sit in on a podcast with The DC AM.  The guys were great and we had an awesome time.  Lots of good information was given and… yes we know now not to Skype in.  Phone calls next time.

The podcast can be found Here: Professional Pickup on The DC AM

DC Single’s Meetup

Oct 31, 2010 0

Sisarina (Host of #DCTweetup) & Professional Pickup (Dating & Pickup Advisors) have partnered with Lupe Cantina to bring you:

DC Singles Meetup

Sisarina knows how to throw a good mixer and will make sure you get to know each other with icebreakers. We are also bringing in some married couples to help you get the conversation moving without feeling pressured.

Professional Pickup knows how to get you a date and is putting together a seminar just for you with tips, tricks and advice for your dating and love life. No need to take notes, just listen intently and you’ll get a chance to practice.

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What You Do, Leads How You Feel

Oct 26, 2010 0
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“Recent research in clinical psychology has shown that the fastest way to change an emotion is to change the behavior attached to it.”- Dr. Noam Shpancer, Action Creates Emotion, Psychology Today.

As Dr. Sphancer’s article reminds us, taking action leads your emotional center.  So taking responsibility for your social life is a critical component to being a well balanced adult.  Sitting around waiting until you “feel like” being talkative is just not going to happen.  You have to take the action first.

Frankly, you should consider yourself lucky.

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Dating Seminar for DC Women

Sep 13, 2010 0
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You’ve asked for it and now we’re offering it.  Professional Pickup is now offering a seminar for women only on what guys are thinking and how to get better at dating.  This woman’s dating course will be offered on Monday September 20th at 7PM in DC.   For more information, go to our Eventbright page or Meetup Page and feel free to send us any questions at advice (at) professionalpickup.com.

Why Do Guys Text Message? And Why They Shouldn’t!

Aug 24, 2010 0
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As dating coaches in the Washington DC area, one of the most frequently asked questions we get from women is why do so many men use text messaging to ask them out?  Many women lament that getting asked out over the phone seems to be a dying art in the digital age.  Men are asking women over text, email, Facebook,

Guys, you want to know what I tell them?

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Fear Boredom More Than Fear Itself

Aug 03, 2010 0
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There’s always a bit of fear that goes into approaching women.   From the moment you see who you want, your reptilian part of your brain starts to fire off all kinds of reasons why you should preserve your ego from getting bruised.
“She’s out of my league.”
“She’s talking to someone.”
“She must be with that guy.”
“She saw me look at her but she didn’t smile back.”
“She’s too _______.”
The typical advice is not to think so much and just go talk to her.  Everyone has heard of the “three second” rule by now.  And yet, if that solves the problem, why does it continue to affect so many guys?   Well, let’s face it, a three second window of opportunity is pretty small and rather impractical. I’ve seen this scenario play out thousands of times.   I’ve been in those ruts myself, like most experienced guys have also been.  The problem, the fear of rejection or whatever, just doesn’t go away.   And we all know, the longer you wait, the harder it is, as if your feet grow roots into the floor.  It’s just easier to talk to your friends and complain about the lack of available women that it is to grab your balls and talk to her.
But there’s one thing you have to fear, more the fear itself: boredom.
Boredom is nearly useless.  The only thing boredom does is to remind you that you are letting life slip by you.  Boredom is what you regret spending time on, every time. Worse yet, the more boredom you have in your life, the more boring you are as a person.  And nothing can kill an opportunity with someone then by actually being downright… boring.
Frankly, boredom will keep your fat ass in doors.   It’ll keep you from going to the gym.  It’ll keep you from trying new events.  It’ll keep you from traveling around the world.  Or staying in that shit job because it pays the bills.  No one talks about the boring times they’ve spent, why?  Because it’s damn boring to hear it.   Frankly, boredom will drain your life away.  You should fear that above all else.
So I propose the next time you are out, and you start rooting into the floor with fear that the “timing” isn’t right to talk to a group of girls, decide right there that of all the things you could be, you are not going to boring.  You will not be lame!
Then just go and blow the damn set up, simply to see what happens.  It’ll be far more entertaining that just standing around doing nothing.   I’ll take risk of a momentarily bruised ego for getting shot down, than boredom any day.  It’s frankly a lot safer.

There’s always a bit of fear that goes into approaching women.   From the moment you see who you want, your reptilian part of your brain starts to fire off all kinds of reasons why you should preserve your ego from getting bruised.

“She’s out of my league.”

“She’s talking to someone.”

“She must be with that guy.”

“She saw me look at her but she didn’t smile back.”

“She’s too _______.”

The typical advice is not to think so much and just go talk to her.  Everyone has heard of the “three second” rule by now.  And yet, if that solves the problem, why does it continue to affect so many guys?

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Change the Way You Date and Go Out

Jul 14, 2010 0
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Wonder why you are getting the same results week after week?

I was thinking to myself today regarding what really needs to happen for someone to get good at dating.  What do you think it is?

When you go out and get the same results is it your fault or theirs? Read more

June Seminar

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Just a quick reminder that tomorrow Wednesday, June 9th will be our month Seminar.

We’re going to review what we found out at the 2010 Dating Convention and the Global Pickup Conferences.  We’ll follow up with a informal round table to ask us any of your pickup or dating related questions.

Details:

The Black Squirrel (Top Floor)
2427 18th Street Northwest
Washington, DC 20009-2030